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Understanding Why Demands Can Feel Overwhelming for Autistic People
Photo by Nick Fewings on Unsplash Many autistic people find demands difficult to manage. This can include everyday tasks, social expectations, or even activities they enjoy. This article explores what constitutes a demand, and why demands can feel overwhelming for autistic people. It also shares possible reasons for demand avoidance, and some strategies to help. While the article is written for autistic people, it might also be useful for anyone regularly coming into contact
5 days ago


When You’re Not Heard: The Impact of Feeling Misunderstood
Photo by Sam Mann on Unsplash Imagine trying to explain why a busy shop feels unbearable, or why a routine appointment fills you with dread, only to be told you’re "overreacting". For many autistic people, this is an everyday reality. Experiences are brushed aside, minimised, or doubted. The message—intended or not—is that your feelings are not valid. Why It Matters Being misunderstood is not just frustrating. Over time, it chips away at confidence. When loved ones dismiss c
Nov 10


Why the Kitchen Feels Off Limits: Living with Shared Spaces
Photo by Mohammad O Siddiqui on Unsplash For many autistic people, living in a shared home can be complicated. While having your own room may feel safe, communal areas like kitchens, bathrooms or living rooms can feel overwhelming. The kitchen in particular is often avoided—even when you are hungry or need to prepare food. This isn’t about being antisocial or unwilling to join in. Shared spaces can present very real challenges that make them feel off limits. Why Shared Space
Nov 4


Starting Is the Hardest Part: Understanding Autistic Inertia
Photo by Elisa Ventur on Unsplash Many autistic people describe a feeling of being “stuck”. You know a task needs doing, you may even...
Oct 13


Making Halloween More Comfortable for Autistic Children
Photo by Beth Teutschmann on Unsplash For many autistic children, Halloween can bring sensory overload—flashing lights, noisy...
Oct 6


The Workday Is Over, But I’m Still Exhausted: Energy Management After Work
Photo by Shamia Casiano on Unsplash Finishing a day at work is often seen as the moment to relax and recharge. For many autistic people,...
Sep 17


Navigating Adult Friendships and Social Cues
Photo by Anne Nygård on Unsplash Friendship can bring joy, comfort and belonging. But it can also be complicated, especially for...
Sep 16


When Self-Care Becomes Too Difficult
Photo by Anne Nygård on Unsplash When we hear the phrase self-care, many people think of bubble baths, yoga, or spa days. But for...
Sep 8


App Review: Focus Friend by Hank Green
Focus Friend by Hank Green Finding ways to stay focused can be a challenge for many autistic (and other neurodivergent) people,...
Aug 26


Guest Post: One Mother’s Experience of Her Son’s Autism Assessment
Photo by Alexander Grey on Unsplash This guest blog post is written by Sophie (not her real name). We asked Sophie to write a piece for...
Jul 28


Introducing Personal User Manuals in the Workplace
Creating an inclusive and supportive workplace doesn’t have to be complicated. One practical tool that can make a significant difference...
Jul 22


Should I Tell My Employer I'm Autistic? Exploring the Pros and Cons of Disclosure at Work
Photo by GRAY on Unsplash If you’re autistic and currently in work, you may be wondering whether or not disclose your autism to your...
Jul 21


Why Mindfulness Can be Hard for Autistic People (and How to Make it Work for You)
Photo by Aleksandr Ledogorov on Unsplash Mindfulness is often described as a helpful way to manage stress, anxiety and overwhelm. But...
Jul 16


An Autistic Person’s Guide to Going on a Cruise
Written by Autism Guernsey's Education Manager: In June, I went on a one-week Nordic cruise with P&O aboard their ship Iona , departing...
Jul 7


Guest Post: Online Dating for Autistic Adults: Opportunities, Risks, and Safe Spaces
Photo by Priscilla Du Preez 🇨🇦 on Unsplash This post was written for Autism Guernsey by Laura Simpson, Guernsey’s Digital Safety...
Jun 16


Why Keeping Your Phone Out of the Bedroom Might Help Your Sleep: A Guide for Autistic Adults
Photo by Nubelson Fernandes on Unsplash Many autistic people find comfort in routine, calm spaces, and reduced sensory input. But mobile...
Jun 9


Guest Post: A Guide to Setting Boundaries for Phone and Device Use (For Parents and Carers of Autistic Children and Teens)
Photo by hessam nabavi on Unsplash This post was written for Autism Guernsey by Laura Simpson, Guernsey’s Digital Safety Development...
Jun 2


Guest Post: An Introduction to Gaming (For Parents and Carers of Autistic Children and Teens)
Photo by Sigmund on Unsplash This post was written for Autism Guernsey by Laura Simpson, Guernsey’s Digital Safety Development Officer....
Jun 2


Your Colleague Just Told You They Are Autistic. Now What?
Photo by Priscilla Du Preez 🇨🇦 on Unsplash If a colleague tells you that they’re autistic, it’s a sign of trust. They may have thought...
May 12


Autism Myth-Busting: Autistic People Can’t Live Independently
Photo by Maria Lin Kim on Unsplash One common myth about autism is that autistic people cannot live independently. This belief is not...
Apr 28
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